The Wrong Lilies

The Wrong Lilies

Wednesday, July 3, 2024

IT'S UP TO US

I saw a headline questioning whether the American Dream was still possible.

We all pretty much know what the American Dream is:  individual freedom, freedom from tyranny, freedom to be what it is possible for us to be, AND the belief that we must then let all others have these same freedoms.

And the answer to all of this, I think, is the same it as always been:  "It's Up To Us"

We have to do the work.  We have to vote for good and decent leaders.  We have to encourage others to vote for good and decent leaders.  We have to speak out against those who want to assume power without accountability.  

IT'S UP TO US.  IT ALWAYS HAS BEEN.

Wednesday, June 19, 2024

EVERYTHING EVERYWHERE ALL AT ONCE

As everyone everywhere is fully aware, there is a movie by this same title:  Everything Everywhere All At Once.  But we have now become extremely aware that that title also describes Life Today!

Despite being warned as far back as 2000, by Al Gore, of the impending hazards of climate because of the impending damage to our planet by ourselves, nothing much was done.  And now it's going to be so much harder to do anything about Climate Change, while we are at the same time experiencing the extremes of Climate Change:  weather so mild in late fall and early winter that spring flowers bloom; tornadoes constantly sweeping across our country; heavy flooding along the coastal areas; terrible wildfires in the West; terrible heat in the west and moving eastward.  And these are just the things we know, from the headlines.



I have to believe the Human Race is capable of doing something about all this.  How about cross-country canals so that flooding can be diverted to fire-prone areas, which are fire-prone because of drought.  How about more trees in cities to clean the air and the temperatures.  How about humankind stopping wars on itself and using resources to make the earth clean and comfortable?  How about religion being a private thing that doesn't determine who lives and who dies?  How about learning more about housing constructions in the Middle East out of mud that build homes that are cool and comfortable?

How about all the possible good ideas out there that aren't being thought of because of the distractions from all the hate and anger out there?  

How about we at least try?   

Saturday, May 4, 2024

A CREATURE CALLED CRITTER

 Last summer, the summer of 2023, we had triple digit temperatures.  One day in August, my son and I were sitting at the dining room table and looking out the window, when we spotted something unusual.  At first glance, it was a grey bird, but on second and third glances, we saw it was a very small kitten.  



We had no idea where it had come from, or how long it had been there.  We didn't know what to do, at first, but eventually we realized that while it was terrified of us, it would surely need food and water.  Of course it ran away at first as my son approached, but he would simply put the food and water down, early in the morning while it was still relatively cool.  Over a period of several days, he patiently put the food and water out every morning, and again late in the evening, each time cleverly retreating away a little closer each day.  Eventually he moved the food and water toward our patio, and the kitten followed it.  Eventually he moved the food and water on our patio and sat near it in the shade.  Eventually he had left the door from the garden room to the patio open and had stepped inside while the kitty was eating, and lo and behold, the kitten followed him into the garden room.  We quickly put fresh food and water down inside, turned the ceiling fans on, and rustled up a litter box.  

At that point, we considered taking the kitten to the nearest animal shelter, because we already had a beloved calico cat named Gina, but we learned the shelter was overwhelmed and having to close several days a week.  So we named the kitten Critter, because at that point we didn't know if it was male or female.  Even with the fans, the garden room was too hot, so we moved the kitten, litter box and all, into my son's room, and kept the door closed.  Then my son began a series of trips to the local veternarian, to have the kitty examined.  It turns out Critter is a female, same as our Gina.  Critter had all the necessary checks and vaccinations, and when our vet pronounced it safe, Gina was allowed to go into the bedroom to meet Critter.  Now they simply share the house!

Somehow, with careful introductions and all that, the two kitties have become friends.  I think a lot has to do with the fact that Gina is about 4 years older than Critter, and can therefore act as the older, wiser individual!  Sometimes they wrestle, sometimes they chase each other, and sometimes they like to nap near each other on one of the beds.  They both give us so much joy and laughter, and have taught us so much.  Especially to be aware of, and think about, and find ways to help all the children of the world, including those far away.  💕💕💕💕💕




Monday, April 29, 2024

THE FEELINGS WE ARE FEELING

 As one becomes more mature, it becomes apparent that one is much more aware of one's personal feelings about life, about the world, about others, but it also becomes apparent that one becomes more aware of what everyone else is experiencing.  And right now, my mind and heart are reeling from all the problems and disasters and losses that are being experienced everywhere.  

Bizarre and violent weather has destroyed so many homes and business buildings in so many places across the center of our country.  I sit in my home, full of things that are displayed to represent experiences and memories in my life, and I hear about all those losses, and my humanity reaches out helplessly to all of those who have simply lost everything.  

In other countries, violent idiocies are destroying homes and families and futures.  In Gaza, children are dying of malnutrition, while heads of state cannot grasp that these sufferings will not, will never, bring back losses.

In Ukraine, a vicious invasion just destroys, constantly, as if that destruction could possibly gain the destroyers praise and victory.

Some of the human destruction is because of religion, other destruction is because of hubris.  

To those who destroy in the names of their religions, I repeat a quote I read:  "I stand for humanity!"

To those who destroy in the name of vanity, I repeat another quote I read:  "What would it benefit for those who gain the whole world, and lose their own soul?"

For, though I am not particularly wise or good or brave or strong, I know this for certain:  As the song goes, 'What the world needs now is love, sweet love, that's the only thing that there's just too little of."